Monday, May 17, 2010

relationships

There are some family birthdays coming up this month and next and that so soon after Mother's Day has me thinking. About relationships. Our relationships with our spouses or lovers are relationship patterns we learn from our parents.

Either we subconsciously repeat the patterns we saw in our family or we decided to be the *exact opposite* of what we saw in our family. Sometimes that's good, and sometimes it's not so good.  If we find ourselves repeating the same pattern of relationship over and over and over again with different spouses or lovers, then that may not be so good. Especially if your family fell into that 99% of families in the US that was/is dysfunctional.

But the good news is that you can break that repeating relationship pattern. If you want to. And the fastest and easiest way to do it is using hypnosis.

Repeating patterns are buried in the subconscious, and when given the choice of the "devil we know" or the "devil we don't know" the subconscious will indeed chose the devil it knows. Again and again and again.

There are several techniques we could use, including re-parenting, healing the inner child self, making certain that you don't see yourself as "half a person" (most often that applies to females), and making you a happy and complete "whole person" all by yourself. Then what happens, once these repairs or adjustments are done is that you will attract a different type of mate or lover, one that will not fall into that old pattern the subconscious used to choose, thereby breaking the old pattern.

Of course, that doesn't really apply to Karmic Relationships. That, my friends, is an entirely different ball game. :)